Dear Misogynistic Majority,
I’m not sure what to say to you. I’m not sure what to say to anyone as I read the news of Bangalore’s “mass molestation” this New Years Eve. You all know what I’m talking about.
There were approximately sixty THOUSAND people on the two busiest roads in the metropolis that day. Sixty thousand people and yet no one helped as woman after woman faced sexual assault. There were 6-7 men stuck to each woman like leeches. Sounds horrifying, doesn’t it?
It is YOUR mentality that is the root cause of horrors like this. 45 CCTV cameras caught the assaults. If anything, these numbers should shock you – just like they shocked the nation. Our nation cries from agony when we read of cases like Nirbhaya and Bangalore. Our women cry from agony on a daily basis because of the assault they face, physically and emotionally. Obviously, their cries go unheard, drowned out by jeering voices and whistles. It is not okay to leer or catcall. It is not okay to gently “brush” against someone. IT IS NOT OKAY TO BE A BYSTANDER, MAN OR WOMAN, LIKE MOST OF YOU WERE IN BANGALORE, WHILE HUNDREDS OF WOMEN GOT MOLESTED IN FRONT OF YOUR EYES.
What is wrong with you people? First you rape, then you proceed to make jokes on rape, and when we don’t laugh, what do you say? “So uptight, why can’t she take a joke?” What a good question. Well then, enlighten me. What exactly is the joke? What is oh-so-funny about rape that I should be doubled over in laughter?
Thought so. We live in a third-world country with the mentality of the Stone Age. Honestly. The misogyny prevalent in our country is seen even through our daily affairs. It is visible by the fact that of the sixty thousand people on those two roads, around a hundred were rapists and sexual offenders. It is seen when out of those hundred, only SIX people have been taken in due to ‘suspicion’ – not even arrested. The officers said they would investigate the Bangalore case “silently”. This is what is wrong with our country. Why be silent? Women – shout, fight for your rights and freedom, make a ruckus. Do not be silent. NEVER be silent when it comes to your body.
And you, misogynistic men – again, I honestly don’t know what to say to you except that you need to change. Everyone has internalised misogyny buried somewhere within them. Everyone struggles with overcoming it – and unsurprisingly, the rest of us do. It’s about time you start trying too. You are not better than us. You have no right to treat us like objects and then make jokes about our sufferings. You have no right.
If rapes and sexual assault cases like these continue in India, there will be a revolution very soon. I swear to you, we will revolt. We will not tolerate being treated like your garbage.
As for the Bangalore case, come on, keep spreading your mentality. Make sure this happens again..and again..and again…and goes unreported, just like the hundreds of rape cases that go unreported everyday. Try to make rape jokes again. Make sure the nation sees a more horrific version of the Bangalore case. I dare you.
We will not suffer for your sins anymore.
A sixteen year old girl,
On behalf of the Feminist Minority.
Dear Misogynistic Majority,